染雾1. Start slowly. Make a list of all the contacts you have in mind who are beyond your usual comfort zone. Then rank them in order of difficulty and call the easiest ones first.
开始时一步一步来。将那些你能想到的自己平常不太敢联系的人列出来，按难度排序，首先给难度最小的那个人打电话。
2. Never assume a "no." Many times job seekers talk themselves out of contacting someone because they assume the person won't want to help or won't be able to. But you never know unless you ask, and you'll gain confidence when you realize how many people are actually pleased to hear from you.
不要一开始就往坏处想。求职者常常说服自己不去联系某人，因为他们认为对方不会想要帮忙，或是表示爱莫能助。但你不去问的话你永远不知道，而且当你发现其实有很多人很乐意与你联系，你将更有信心。
3. Ask for advice rather than information about specific job openings. Not only does this approach avoid putting the other person on the spot, it also might produce useful insights into what's going on at his or her company, or suggestions about other people you should call.
征求意见，而不要追问关于工作机会的具体信息。这种方法一来不至于让对方为难，二来还可能使你了解对方所在公司的现状，他/她或许会告诉你应该去联系谁。
4. Try to offer something in return. Just because you
